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Reality Check: One Suggestion
Do you look forward to each day with optimism? Or do you anticipate it with dread? Maybe you’re thinking, “There’s no point in either worrying or anticipating; it will be what it will be.” Here’s a bigger question: Does your … Continue reading
Posted in Control and Choice
Tagged choosing actions, encouragement, gratitude, happiness
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Reality Check: She Said “Thank You”!
On a recent shopping trip, I witnessed something so remarkable that it’s stuck with me for days. “What could that be?” you might ask. The line-up to the young cashier’s till wasn’t very long, so it was easy to see … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Behaviour
Tagged comparing with others, encouragement, gratitude, improving relationships
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Reality Check: Messages That Matter
Have you ever received feedback that you didn’t want to hear? Yet, once you’ve heard it, you realize that even though it’s painful, it’s true. When someone we love and trust points out that our actions are leading us in … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged criticism, encouragement, offering information, perception
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Reality Check: Legacy and Contribution
What comes to your mind when you hear the words, “leaving a legacy”? Legacy is often interpreted as a monetary gift, but for Stephen Covey, the concept of legacy is broader than money. Covey, famous for “The 7 Habits of … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged choosing actions, choosing influences, encouragement, gratitude, learning
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Reality Check: The Thanksgiving Reminder
As I was standing behind the fine young plumber scrunched up under the sink, I joked, “I’m not really hovering over you; I’m just here for moral support.” His response came as a surprise. Thoughtfully, seriously, he responded, “Everyone can … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged choosing thoughts, encouragement, gratitude
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Reality Check: Fast or Slow?
As I was working on a project that hasn’t been proceeding as quickly and smoothly as I would like, I received an emailed newsletter. Now, here’s something that both you and I know about work. When doing a task that … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Behaviour
Tagged discouragement, encouragement, motivation, priorities
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Reality Check: Stories of Hope
In a parking lot the other day, I was approached by a young woman we’ll call Libby. I’d known her years ago, and it was a delight to see her and catch up. Her story was brimming with positives. A … Continue reading
Posted in Making a Change
Tagged choosing actions, choosing influences, encouragement
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Reality Check: The Caring Habit of Listening
We have many kinds of relationships. Some we choose, such as with our friends. Others are created through work, volunteering, or other connections. All of our relationships may not be chosen, but they can still be cooperative and functional. In … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships
Tagged encouragement, improving relationships, perception
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Reality Check: Encouragement as a Caring Habit
In a world where it can feel that we have little control over so much, it’s helpful to recognize what we can control—especially when it has a significant effect on our quality of life. The care and nurturing of relationships … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships
Tagged encouragement, examining wants, improving relationships
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Reality Check: Your Unknown Impact
Do you know the impact of your life on others? Some people get direct feedback on their actions. For example, if you are in a workplace, you know what happens if you don’t show up for work. If you perform … Continue reading
Posted in Perception & Reality
Tagged choosing influences, encouragement, perception
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