Tag Archives: internal & external control

Beating that No-Choice Feeling

Posted on August 29, 2011 by RealityCheck

Do you ever feel forced into doing meaningless tasks? That you’ve been trapped into doing things that aren’t appreciated? It’s easy to feel dissatisfied when

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Fixing Problems or Fixing Blame?

Posted on August 29, 2011 by RealityCheck

Do you have problems? Disappointments? Unhappiness? You’re a rare person indeed if you can answer, “Never, or hardly ever.” Some people deal with their problems and setbacks more effectively than others do. What’s the difference?

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What’s in Your Quality World?

Posted on August 28, 2011 by RealityCheck

“If only, if only… If only people would do as they should, if only the economy was better, if only things were different! Then, I could be happy and satisfied.” Do you ever think this way? Yet others often share … Continue reading →

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When is Helping Helpful?

Posted on August 28, 2011 by RealityCheck

Bad things happen to good people. When those bad things are happening to someone you care about, it’s natural to want to help. You want to do something, so you offer advice.  However, sometimes your well-intentioned, extremely helpful, or even … Continue reading →

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How do you choose behaviour, anyway?

Posted on August 28, 2011 by RealityCheck

You have to do this! You gotta do that! Does it feel like people are always making you do things? Do you find yourself doing things you don’t want to do because that’s the way it has to be? Do … Continue reading →

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