Category Archives: Choosing Behaviour

Reality Check: Getting around to procrastination

Posted on June 28, 2021 by Suuze

I’ve been meaning to write about procrastination for a while, but I couldn’t seem to get around to it. Now you’re wondering, “Was that a joke?” Or did she mean it? The answer is yes to both questions. But procrastination … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: What does it mean to be strong?

Posted on June 20, 2021 by Suuze

When people face difficulties, observations are often made about the strength of those who are suffering. It is admirable to be strong in the face of adversity. Strength is also beneficial for a helper who wants to support others through … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: When We Recommend

Posted on May 9, 2021 by Suuze

Have you ever written a letter of recommendation? Some people, especially teachers, managers, or business and community group leaders, are often asked to write recommendations for people they know. If you are not involved in the world of formal, paid … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: The Encouragement of Youth

Posted on May 3, 2021 by Suuze

The recent passing of Prince Philip reminded me about the Duke of Edinburgh award, and that it’s important to encourage youth in positive directions. Encouragement—or a lack of encouragement—can make a significant difference for us, whether we are youthful or … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Realistic and Attainable

Posted on April 25, 2021 by Suuze

It’s difficult to travel now, as you well know. So when Anna got the call that her grandfather was nearing the end of his life, it presented a real quandary. Should she pack up and set off to be with … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Adding Value

Posted on April 18, 2021 by Suuze

In the world of work, adding value is what you need to do if you want to keep your customers. Whether you are making a product or delivering a service, people only want to pay for value, don’t they? Customers … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Strategy for Forgetfulness

Posted on March 21, 2021 by Suuze

Anecdotal evidence suggests that lots of folks fear that they are forgetful. Last column, I suggested that one reason people feel overwhelmed is because they are. We’re busy, perhaps anxious, yet tasks keep coming. We lose track and forget. While … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Spinning Our Wheels

Posted on February 28, 2021 by Suuze

One of the rare Choice Theory-related books that I don’t have is entitled Stop Spinning Your Wheels. As I thought I might indulge in a gift to myself, I went browsing for it. That browsing reminded me that the idea … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: The Trade-offs We Choose

Posted on January 24, 2021 by Suuze

In case your mind feels like it’s still on holiday, here’s a little scenario to spark your imagination. You are going down a hallway behind a person on crutches. They are proceeding hesitantly; giving you the impression that the crutches … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Providing Information

Posted on October 11, 2020 by Suuze

“Other people can neither make us miserable nor make us happy. All we can get from them or give to them is information.” At least, that’s what Dr. Wm. Glasser says in Choice Theory. We exchange all kinds of information. … Continue reading →

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