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Reality Check: Go For It!
If you spend any time looking at life management strategies, the topic of goals is sure to come up. Last column, I looked at goals from the perspective of what we might want to give up. This time, I’ll take … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing actions, examining wants, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: Staying Alive
Have you ever taken a CPR course? Or maybe you can recall music from the ‘70s? If so, I imagine that the words, “Staying Alive” bring a little tune to mind. Feel free to hum along as you read. Staying … Continue reading
Posted in Needs
Tagged basic needs, conflict, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: Love and Belonging
According to Choice Theory, we have basic needs, and much of what we do is an attempt to satisfy those needs. Some actions are effective; others not so much. Most of the time, we likely don’t think of needs as … Continue reading
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Tagged basic needs, improving relationships, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: What Does Freedom Mean To You?
“How do you want your life to be?” In these columns, I’ve chosen to use the structure of basic needs as outlined in Choice Theory to help us answer that question. We’ll start by taking a look at our basic … Continue reading
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Tagged basic needs, freedom, happiness, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: Could Organizing Your Wants Change Your Life?
I have an important question for you and it’s only four words long: “What do you want?” Perhaps you can easily produce a detailed list of exactly what things you want, what people you want in your life, what values … Continue reading
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Tagged basic needs, examining wants, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: The Shifting Sands of Wants
What do you want? What do you really, really want? Some people don’t like to think about what they want. They believe that it’s selfish, or so unattainable that it’s depressing to think about it. Maybe we believe there is … Continue reading
Posted in Satisfaction
Tagged comparing with others, discouragement, examining wants, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: Great Expectations
An acquaintance suggested that I watch a new documentary. I respect his opinion and the topic sounded interesting, so I had great expectations. When a rainy day finally came along and I took the opportunity to watch it, I was … Continue reading
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Tagged examining wants, happiness, internal & external control, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: Just One Makes a Difference
Would you like to have the power to change the world? You probably know how things ought to be. Whether we’re talking community, country, or the whole planet, things would be better if they were different. Different how? The way … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing actions, examining wants, helpful, need satisfaction, power
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Reality Check: The Wisdom of the Second Look
When we cross a busy street, we look both ways to make sure the coast is clear. It’s often prudent to take a second look before we set out, as we might overlook a potential threat the first time. If … Continue reading
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Tagged basic needs, choosing thoughts, examining wants, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: The Whys and Hows of Relationships
Relationships are a big deal in Choice Theory, where much of Dr. Glasser’s writings address how to improve relationships. Yet if we look at current culture, we could get the impression that it’s the disputes that are applauded, not efforts … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing actions, examining wants, improving relationships, need satisfaction
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