No, this column isn’t about Snow White; it’s about fairness. Of course, Snow White’s beauty did offer her an unfair advantage over the wicked queen. And, the wicked queen had the unfair advantage of power. Fairness is complicated, isn’t it?
Unlike some concepts, people grasp the idea of fairness without elaborate teaching. Tiny children easily manage an indignant, “That’s not fair!” should they perceive that someone is getting better treatment than they are. Continue reading
I can’t, I won’t, I don’t want! There’s always something that we can’t do, won’t do, or don’t want. And, there are things that we can do, will do, and do want. Which is most helpful to focus on?
Elyssa has been concentrating on what she can’t have in her relationship with Henry. Continue reading
Self-help programs often promote the benefits of gratitude. Especially during those times when you are feeling particularly ungrateful, thinking and saying “thank you” can be really helpful.
Let’s say you wake up feeling grumpy. Sometimes it happens! There may be no reason for your grouchy mood; it’s just there. You might even sense the beginnings of a headache to round out this unpleasant morning experience.
There are two ways your day can go from here. Continue reading
Opportunities for conflict abound. That’s reality. Whether those conflicts grow into overwhelming difficulties or fade into minor irritations can depend largely on the choices we make. That’s reality therapy.
What behaviours are helpful when we’re faced with a conflict? Continue reading
Great romances can make for great drama, and the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet pretty much takes the cake for drama, complexity, and unfortunate outcome.
Drama occurs in present-day romances too, Continue reading
Do you know someone who is trapped in a difficult, unsatisfying situation? It’s painful to watch, isn’t it? It’s even worse if you perceive that a happy, satisfying life could be readily available.
Mick and Minnie’s friends see a simple obvious solution to their unhappy situation; it’s as plain as the bottle in front of Mick’s face. Continue reading
