Tag Archives: criticism

Reality Check: More Alike Than Different

In his bestseller, “All Things Being Equal,” author John Mighton proposes that widespread math competence could be the key to a better, more just world. What’s your reaction to that? I’m guessing that it might be anywhere from, “Yes, obviously!” … Continue reading

Posted in Choosing Perspective | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: More Alike Than Different

Reality Check: A Real Gift

Gift-giving is top of mind for many people at this time of year. While the unusual circumstances of the last two years may have changed some perspectives about what is important, gift purchases are still common. We buy products or … Continue reading

Posted in Relationships | Tagged , , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: A Real Gift

Reality Check: The Joy of Diverse Opinions

Wouldn’t it be great if we all agreed? We’d live in peace and harmony! However, to quote Dr. Glasser, “We all want a perfect world populated by perfect people like us, but that world has never existed. If it did, … Continue reading

Posted in Relationships | Tagged , , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: The Joy of Diverse Opinions

Reality Check: Go, Team

Are you part of a team? If you play sports or belong to a work team, then the answer is easily, “Yes.” You might belong to a less formal association, like a community group where people come together with a … Continue reading

Posted in Relationships | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: Go, Team

Reality Check: The Unexpected Kindness

Asparagus season reminds me of an incident that’s been a helpful example for me over the years. One spring long ago, when the emerging asparagus was at its peak, I had invited some acquaintances for dinner. Among my guests was … Continue reading

Posted in Choosing Perspective | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: The Unexpected Kindness

Reality Check: The Value of Work

Work and workplaces have changed over the past weeks. Some changes are dramatic, with workplaces completely shut down. Other workplaces carry on with relatively minor changes. Whether it’s your work that’s affected, or it’s your experience as a consumer, I’m … Continue reading

Posted in Control and Choice | Tagged , , , , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: The Value of Work

Reality Check: The Critical Eye

Many people are now spending more time at home. While that may be with people you love and care about, it may also be in close quarters and for some, it must be quite a change. There’s an interesting difference … Continue reading

Posted in Relationships | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: The Critical Eye

Reality Check: When we don’t like our advice

Advice is plentiful, whether we look for it or not. What to eat, where to live, how to act; you can find someone, somewhere, ready to offer their opinion. How do you respond to advice that you don’t like? When … Continue reading

Posted in Choosing Perspective | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: When we don’t like our advice

Reality Check: Choosing Your Advisors

Whether we ask for it or not, we are often on the receiving end of advice. For example, when your mother-in-law tells you that you should have put your snow tires on two weeks ago, you might not have identified … Continue reading

Posted in Personal Freedom | Tagged , , , , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: Choosing Your Advisors

Reality Check: The Urge to Justify

Most of us have been on the receiving end of criticism at some point. If that’s you, then you may also be familiar with the urge to respond by justifying your actions. Criticism sometimes comes from the people closest to … Continue reading

Posted in Choosing Perspective | Tagged , , , , | Comments Off on Reality Check: The Urge to Justify