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Reality Check: That Work/Life Balance
Have you ever succeeded at something that was difficult for you? I suspect that you have. So, let’s try a little thought experiment. Look back at that time, whether it was minutes ago or years ago. What were you thinking … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged choosing influences, offering information, perception, win-win
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Reality Check: If only you had come with an instruction manual…
You know those instruction manuals that come with electronics, appliances, and other complicated products? Even though they are friendlier than they used to be, many people ignore the manuals and just push buttons till the thing does what you want … Continue reading
Posted in Develop Understanding
Tagged improving relationships, offering information, win-win
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Reality Check: The two sides of protection
Could anyone possibly be against something named “Safe Food for Canadians”? The recent discussion around potentially negative impacts of new food safety regulations on small food producers is a good reminder that just because something has an appealing name doesn’t … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged basic needs, freedom, making choices, responsibility, win-win
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Reality Check: The Employability Skill of Getting Along… But How?
Last post, I suggested that the skill of “getting along” is essential if you are to succeed in most any workplace. If you find yourself in disputes or isolated from your co-workers, then it may help to work on your … Continue reading
Posted in Workplace
Tagged choosing actions, conflict, improving relationships, win-win
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Reality Check: Own It!
Have you heard any white lies lately? Maybe even told one or two of your own? We sometimes tell tiny falsehoods to avoid hurt feelings; fibs intended to be virtuous, not evil. However, just because we have positive intent with … Continue reading
Reality Check: A little respect, please
To strengthen relationships and build satisfying lives, choice theory promotes seven caring habits, including the habit of respect. What’s the impact of respect in a relationship? Henry was forced to retire from a well-paying, satisfying career where he had enjoyed … Continue reading
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Tagged criticism, improving relationships, win-win
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Reality Check: What’s wanted in workplaces? (cont’d)
What do business owners or managers want from their workers? One answer is “motivated employees.” Regardless of whether the business creates products or sells services, ultimately, its success depends on the work of employees. Their motivation is key. Managerial theories … Continue reading
Posted in Workplace
Tagged need satisfaction, win-win
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Reality Check: The Fairest of Them All
No, this column isn’t about Snow White; it’s about fairness. Of course, Snow White’s beauty did offer her an unfair advantage over the wicked queen. And, the wicked queen had the unfair advantage of power. Fairness is complicated, isn’t it? … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Behaviour
Tagged conflict, fairness, win-win
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