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Reality Check: When there’s no perfect option
Have you ever needed to make a decision, only to find that there isn’t a single perfect option among the possibilities? That’s the usual case, isn’t it? If there were a perfect option, we’d go right ahead and choose that. … Continue reading
Posted in Control and Choice
Tagged basic needs, examining wants, making choices, need satisfaction
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Reality Check: Your Happiness and Other People’s Stuff
An application of choice theory called WDEP starts with, “What do you want?” Different people want different things. Taking the time to first identify what you want helps you choose what actions to take to get it. “What you want” … Continue reading
Posted in Satisfaction
Tagged comparing with others, examining wants, happiness, perception
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Reality Check: Barriers to Happiness
To start this New Year, I’m choosing to focus on happiness. For some time now, I’ve been interested in the question of why some people are happy while others are not. As I’ve studied this question, I’ve found books, articles, … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged examining wants, guilt, happiness, perception
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Reality Check: Aesop’s Snake
Do you believe there’s good in everyone? That even the most awful person is good at their core? Values and beliefs form part of what Dr. Wm. Glasser refers to as our “Quality World.” Our beliefs influence our perceptions, decisions … Continue reading
Posted in Making a Change
Tagged "should", examining wants, internal & external control
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Reality Check: The Time Trap
There exists a near-universal excuse to get out of most any activity. It goes like this: “Oh, I’m sorry. I don’t have enough time to do that.” Have you ever used this excuse? I have. So many people feel time-stressed … Continue reading
Posted in Control and Choice
Tagged examining wants, guilt, improving relationships, self-evaluation
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Reality Check: The Battle of the Hummingbirds
If you have a hummingbird feeder, then you know the routine. A single hummingbird will sit on a perch and eat. But add another, and suddenly everybody is flitting around, hovering, staring, chasing, and squawking. More energy is spent bothering … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged "should", comparing with others, examining wants, fairness
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Reality Check: Joe’s New Job
Joe’s employment history could be described as “spotty.” It’s not that he can’t find work; Joe is able to get hired relatively easily. He’s articulate and presents himself in an interview as being pleasant and intelligent. However, Joe has developed … Continue reading
Posted in Workplace
Tagged comparing with others, criticism, examining wants, making choices, self-evaluation
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Reality Check: Going My Way?
Are you stressed? Most of us feel stressed some of the time. Some feel stressed all of the time. One perception of stress is that it’s caused by things outside of us that we can’t control. Whether it’s our jobs, … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged choosing thoughts, examining wants, making choices, perception
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