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Reality Check: Dilbert and Beyond

Scott Adams has passed away. To many, Adams is known primarily as the creator of Dilbert, that cartoon character with the flipped-up tie and a sincere effort to do his job well despite the challenges of a less than-perfect workplace. … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: The Positive Power of Doing Something

Any time is a good time to assess how things are going, and the dawning of the New Year can add an extra little motivational kick. Thus, I’d recently suggested that now is a great time to take stock; to … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Taking Stock of Our Inventory

From time to time, many business take inventory. They look at the company valuables, such as equipment, raw materials, product that’s ready to be sold, and they record what they have. Is it what they expected? Are there important things … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Fresh New Year, Fresh New Changes

There are changes coming! While I’m at it, I may as well throw in a prediction about Maritime weather: It’s going to change! Not a big surprise, is it? Changes happen; some for the better; others just make things worse. … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Gifts and Presence

It’s that time of year when many of us focus on presents. Ads surround us promoting the message: this is a time to buy. Granted, getting and giving packages wrapped in festive paper and glittery ribbons does add a certain … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Where Will I Put My Attention Today?

My former colleague Jim had to attend a company meeting in New Brunswick with a few other employees. They drove out in early morning, allowing plenty of time for arrival. About half-way, they switched drivers; Jim took the wheel. Jim … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Choosing Words for Difficult Conversations

Last time, I introduced Casey and Cathy’s story. It’s one where Casey has become resentful, perceiving that the more she does for Cathy, the greater are Cathy’s expectations. “Favours” have become demands. Casey has decided that she needs to address … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Does This Call for a Confrontation?

What does a satisfying life look like for you? For many people, an important measure of a satisfying life is that it includes being on good terms with people. Exactly who and how many people will vary from person to … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: The Habit of Communication

Habits matter. They can affect how well our bodies work. They can influence whether we spend much of our time feeling joyful or despondent. Our habits can also contribute to how warm and connected we feel to other people. It … Continue reading →

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Reality Check: Choosing Direction

Both good events and bad events are happening all the time. Babies are born, but loved ones pass away. Financial situations rise or fall. Living arrangements change for the better or for the worse. Friends and family may draw closer … Continue reading →

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