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Reality Check: The Odds of Encouragement
What are the odds that you’ll happen to say something encouraging to someone who could really benefit from it at that very moment? Encouragement is one of the seven caring habits that Dr. Glasser suggests will build relationships. Even if … Continue reading
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Tagged encouragement, gratitude, helpful, improving relationships
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Reality Check: That Fresh New Year Fragrance
Have you ever bought one of those air fresheners called “new car smell”? For a few bucks, you can bask in the scent of rich leather. Or maybe it’s rich vinyl. Either way, you can experience a luxurious new car … Continue reading
Posted in Choosing Perspective
Tagged choosing actions, choosing influences, examining wants
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Reality Check: What Encourages You?
Encouragement makes a difference in people’s lives. OK, that may just be my opinion, but I’m sticking with it. What do you think? Do you act differently when you are feeling encouraged compared to when you are discouraged? My observation … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing actions, choosing thoughts, encouragement, perception
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Reality Check: Is It Infectious?
Post-pandemic, we’re all aware of how easy it can be to catch something nasty. Thus, we take measures to prevent getting infected. We might avoid situations where we could be exposed to disease or we might try to build up … Continue reading
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Tagged "should", blame, conflict, examining wants, offering information
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Reality Check: It Takes Two to Insult
They say that it takes two to tango, but that’s not all! Lots of activities depend on cooperation, and it’s important to cooperate in many situations. Is cooperation always the right thing? Of course not. When it’s an evil, destructive, … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing thoughts, conflict, freedom, improving relationships, perception
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Reality Check: The Things That Are Working
As the grey days of winter set in, spirits can turn grey too. Winter is coming; will it be a hard one or an easy one? Predictions aren’t perfect, but it’s safe to say it’ll get colder and there will … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing thoughts, discouragement, gratitude, perception
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Reality Check: Can Good Come From Setbacks?
“How’s it going?” Has anyone asked you that recently? If so, how do you respond? Often we say, “Fine,” regardless of what’s happening. It is a practical answer, especially if we believe that the person asking isn’t really interested in … Continue reading
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Tagged choosing actions, discouragement, encouragement, perception, priorities
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Reality Check: Stocking the Toolkit
If you wanted to equip a young person with the tools they need to have a satisfying life, what would you choose? My long-standing answer contains only three items: we need to be able to read, to write, and to … Continue reading
Posted in Develop Understanding
Tagged choosing actions, choosing influences, learning, priorities
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